The Soulmate Connection
Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them your whole life? More than likely, that’s a soulmate! It’s a soul recognition, often going beyond words. I almost equate this to a psychic connection. Like ice cream, love comes in many different flavors. We’re used to thinking, “But I love Rocky Road the most, not Mint & Chip.” Maybe, your romantic relationships are Rocky Road, but your best friend is Mint & Chip, or a parent is Vanilla. We have an opportunity to experience many different types of connections in our life’s journey.
We tend to consider a soulmate our one-and-only-true-love, but our soul group consists of more than one soulmate. These are souls we’ve traveled into this life with from past lives. At times, upon meeting someone you may feel a sense of familiarity, or even feel a sense of déjà vu. Trust in that feeling of “knowing.” They may be one of your soulmates. That’s because soulmates can be your significant other, a best friend, a parent, or anyone else that is here to connect with you on a soul level. They are here to remind you of where you come from and who you truly are, which is a magnificent being of light.
There are many avenues to love. Sometimes one avenue doesn’t get you to where you want to be, and that’s OK. I’ve had people tell me “But I can’t let go of the relationship because I know in my heart, he was the “One,” my true soulmate. And now that the relationship is over, I lost my opportunity at true love.” This is a misconception. We come into this life to learn lessons, for our soul to evolve to the next level, and people in our lives are here to help us do just that. It may be that you felt that “soul recognition” upon meeting but the relationship turned toxic, or it lived fast and died hard. That’s OK, it doesn’t diminish the relationship itself because it ended. It doesn’t mean that person wasn’t your soulmate. Life is full of choices that take us down one path or the other. There is free will but there is also a bigger plan at play, and our choices affect the way it all plays out. Just because the relationship ended does not mean another won’t begin again.
It may be a new romantic relationship that forms, or it might be a powerful friendship that you never anticipated coming. People gravitate to each for all types of reasons. Some people are brought together because they share in a similar loss. What a beautiful and pure connection that may be; one with honesty, compassion, and acceptance. That’s a soulmate. A soulmate is someone you can truly be your best self with, get the most out of life, and evolve with on a soul level. It isn’t something you force. It’s natural. It’s surprising and it’s exciting when it happens. You’ll know in your heart when you are in the presence of this person.
Know that this connection continues on the other side. Even if you have lost a soulmate in the physical world trust that this relationship is just as strong from the realm of Spirit. If this is the case and you lost this soulmate, talk to them as if they are still here. There is no separation between the two of you. The relationship is infinite.